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Grounding techniques help you live in the moment, even when intrusive thoughts threaten your peace. Here are a few simple methods you can try:

  1. Focus on the Object: Pick something in your surroundings. Examine very detail: the colors, texture, size, shape, and any unique characteristics.
  2. Five Senses:
    • Name 5 things you can see
    • 4 things you can touch
    • 3 things you can hear
    • 2 things you can smell
    • 1 thing you can taste
  3. Literal Grounding: Place your feed flat on the floor, take a deep breath, and say to yourself, “I am in the present moment.”

I’ll give it a try now with each technique:

  1. Focus on the object:
    • I am choosing the pencil cup in my office.
    • There are two pairs of scissors. I wonder who is missing their pair.
    • I see highlighters in pink, yellow, green, and blue.
    • There are two little drawers. I forgot I had so many post-it notes.
    • The cup isn’t so much as cup as a little desk organizer.
    • The organizer has a black metal mesh.
  2. Five Senses
    • 5 things I can see
      • The pencil cup
      • My keyboard
      • A reversible plushie
      • An empty cup
      • A notepad
    • 4 things I can touch
      • My fuzzy pajamas
      • The pleather of my office chair
      • The smooth wood finish on my desk
      • The edges of my phone case
    • 2 things I can smell
      • Not much, I’m stuffy!
      • Again, not really smelling anything now.
    • 1 thing I can taste
      • A hint of the last girl-scout cookie I ate
  3. Literal Grounding:
    • Okay, that one was weird. Maybe it’s better to say, “I am in the present moment” silently in my head.
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